Wednesday, 13 May 2015

No doubt

Not good at console people when they are in bad situation/feeling.
Not at all. 

I tried to, but end up giving up as I dont know what to say or what i gonna say could be very straightforward. 

What I am good at seems to be always be there for you whenever you need me. 

I am glad that you have overcame it, and you are still the cheerful girl you used to be! 

No doubt.
Everything is gonna be alright. 
Once again, know your worth. 
Know your worth and cherish it more than anything.
We do not need anyone to measure our worthiness (they're bullshit) because we are Priceless! 



Nothing can beat us down.
Why not? 

Tuesday, 12 May 2015

To live a life

We have no choice but to keep moving on.
So we have to learn to say goodbye and say hi to the new one with a big hug.

That's life. 

However , sometimes , 
I hate to say goodbye. 

I love to keep those old stuff
as they're part of my memories and memories are very precious to me.

Sadly,
I cant stop the time. 
I cant stop it when it's changing things. 
Things change, people change, everything change. 

I do not know how to best keep those every precious moments in my life.
Sometimes, i am afraid. That i might forget any of them. 

Although i know my mind is unable to remember everything, 
i know, deep down, i have my soul to remember everything - everything. 

I remember you
I remember love
I remember we talk we laugh we love we hug we care we fight we sad ... ; 

And

I remember , i love you.


Best way to live a life for me is to 

Live in the moment while keep love in my mind & heart. 


Jann 

Thursday, 16 April 2015

Pursuits for life

What is your pursuits in life ? 


I am pondering about mine. 

Friday, 10 April 2015

我愛我的小脾氣

如果我失去了我的小脾氣
我就不是我。

我會為你成為更好的自己
但我 更會為我自己 愛自己更多。

一個人 太完美
是一件 很恐怖的事
那樣的生活 就少了樂趣

就像一個阿伯在狹窄的餐廳裡 不把chair坐好 就愛把chair後面兩根支撐的腳撐起
朋友剛好經過 不小心向後撞到他
他還'囁'一聲 怒眼瞪朋友 我朋友表情不愉悅 但心裡又超想笑 因為那表情 有笑點!

所以 有時候  對自己 也真的不必太嚴苛 把自己搞得很累 
- 哎呀 我不該那樣對他說 
- 怎麼辦 他是不是生氣了
- 我這樣錯了嗎 

仔細想看 我們的每個當下 其實都在做選擇 做每個當下「最適當的決定」

你會在那個當下 發脾氣 一定有原因的(除非故意啦) 那何必還自責呢
(當然事後應該想如何脾氣發的更恰當而不傷感情同時讓對方了解你真正的想法)

沒有人天生愛吵架 
(除了神經病或學不會好好溝通的人)
不想說 「每段感情都是緣分」這麼老土的話 
但這真的是「真話」 無可否認

也許 能夠走到結婚 白頭偕老 永沐浴在愛河裡
也許 發現彼此的不合適 維持得辛苦 分手
也許 鬧殭了 變仇敵 分手

愛情 很奇怪
是費洛蒙 嗎 ? 

可以讓2個 陌生人 交心 有好感 變最親密的好朋友
也可以 變仇敵 亂罵 為何當初瞎了眼 


嗯 我不懂 

反正 

小脾氣 萬歲 

why not ? 


productive midnight



A lot of thoughts in the midnight, tonight. 

So rare. and so productive. OMG :p




good things happens, happening, in my life. 
i am very grateful, of course! 


i don't remember dates/time. 
I put away my phone. 
Just want to concentrate on HAPPINESS
Because I know I love you. 


bad memory sometimes , why not ?